I know what you’re thinking, John 3:16 has got to be the most popular. Wrong! It’s Matthew 7:1. This verse is probably quoted more often than any other passage in the Bible, by Christians and non-Christians alike. And what is this beloved passage? You’ll know it as soon as I begin…
“Judge not, that you be not judged.” See, I told you, you'd know it. And why is this passage the most beloved, most quoted verse in the entire Bible? Because it can be taken out of context and misused very easily to justify any and all sinful behavior. Christians will often quote it as soon as a fellow brother or sister in Christ confronts them about an area of sin in their life, and non-Christians will use it every time they’re confronted with the Biblical truth that they’re lost sinners needing salvation. “How dare you call me a sinner? How dare you try to judge me, you arrogant twit!?” That’s generally the response you get.
Basically, this boils down to Matt.7:1, becoming the end-all verse that stops dead in its tracks, any attempt to be a loving, caring, discerning, and yes…
Biblical Christian. Is this really what Jesus meant? Did He really mean that we can never approach a brother or sister in Christ about sin in their life? If so, then why did He give instructions for doing it in Matt.18:15-17, 1 Corinthians 5, and Galatians 6:1-5?
Did Jesus really mean that we can’t ever know who is really on God’s side and who is not? If so, then why did He say just a few verses later speaking of false teachers, “you will know them by their fruit.” Jesus, you mean, I’m to examine the fruit of a “professing” Christian’s life and compare to your Word to see if its real or not? But that’s making a judgment, Jesus? How could I ever tell another human being that they’re wrong?... that they’re life is not matching up with their "profession"? But even more important than that… Why would you ever want me to do such an unloving, supposedly “un-Christian” thing as pointing out the sin in another person’s life? Should I not be much more loving and kind and just take them for their word? Why in the world would you ever want me to do such a thing, Jesus?!
“Again the word of the Lord came to me, saying,… you, son of man: I have made you a watchman for the house of Israel; therefore you shall hear a word from My mouth and warn them for Me. When I say to the wicked, ‘O wicked man, you shall surely die!’ and you do not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood I will require at your hand. Nevertheless if you warn the wicked to turn from his way, and he does not turn from his way, he shall die in his iniquity; but you have delivered your soul.”
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Ezekiel 33:1,7-9)
You see, in reality, the most loving, caring, and yes, Biblical thing we can do, as Christians, is to warn people regarding their sin and the terrible judgment and wrath to come. Matt.7:1 is not the end-all verse commanding us that it is never appropriate to be discerning, judging, and yes, even confronting from time to time. Jesus was simply warning us about having a harsh, condemning, and critical spirit that finds fault in everything and everyone, even to the point of trying to cast judgment on another person’s motives, which no man can do. As the Scriptures tell us, confronting those who are lost, and helping to bear the burdens of our brothers and sisters in Christ actually fulfills the “law of Christ,” which is the law of love.